Free Resource for Veterans & Their Families

Planning for Burial in a
VA National Cemetery

What to do now, what happens at the time of need, who to call, and what VA covers

A Veteran with a discharge other than dishonorable, and their spouse, can be buried in a VA national cemetery. The gravesite, opening and closing, grave liner, headstone and perpetual care come at no cost. A little preparation now means the family makes one phone call instead of searching for paperwork during a hard week.

The spouse is eligible too, even if they pass away first. Both are usually buried in the same gravesite, with both names on one headstone.
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The Short Version

  1. Find the DD214 (the Veteran's discharge papers) and keep a copy where the family can reach it. It is the single most important document.
  2. Apply for a pre-need eligibility decision from VA, for the Veteran and the spouse. It is free, and the letter tells the family ahead of time that burial is approved.
  3. Pick a preferred national cemetery and write it down. Gravesites cannot be reserved, but VA records the preference.
  4. Tell the family and the funeral home the plan, and where the papers are.
  5. At the time of death, the funeral home calls VA to schedule the burial. The family's main job is handing over the DD214 and the pre-need letter.
Part 1

While You Are Both Living

Each of these steps takes the guesswork off the family later. None of them costs anything except the funeral home pre-plan, which is optional.

  • Locate the DD214 or other separation papers. If it is missing, request a free copy from the National Archives (eVetRecs online, or Standard Form 180 by mail). Allow several weeks.
  • Apply for pre-need eligibility using VA Form 40-10007, online at VA.gov or by mail to NCA Evidence Intake Center, PO Box 5237, Janesville, WI 53547. The Veteran and the spouse each file their own application. Include the DD214 copy so it processes faster.
  • Name a preferred cemetery on the application. It records a preference, not a reserved plot. See the Florida national cemeteries below.
  • Keep the VA decision letter with the DD214 and the will or estate documents.
  • Decide casket or cremation, and whether military funeral honors are wanted.
  • Choose a funeral home and let them know the plan is a VA national cemetery burial. A pre-paid plan is optional; asking for their General Price List lets you compare.
  • Write a one-page instruction sheet for the family: preferred cemetery, funeral home, where the papers are, and any religious emblem or inscription wanted on the headstone.
  • Share where everything is with the person who will handle arrangements.
Good to know: a pre-need decision confirms eligibility only. If the preferred cemetery has no space at the time of need, the family chooses another open national cemetery.
Part 2

At the Time of Death

The funeral home usually handles the VA call, so the family's role is mostly gathering papers and making choices.

  1. Call the funeral home. Tell them the plan is burial in a VA national cemetery, and give them the pre-need letter if there is one.
  2. Gather the papers: the DD214, the pre-need decision letter, and the death certificate when it is ready. For a spouse, a marriage certificate can help.
  3. Have this information ready: full name, Social Security number, date of birth, date of death, and county and zip code at death. Also the next of kin's name, relationship, Social Security number, phone and address.
  4. Make the burial choices: preferred cemetery, casket or cremation (and the casket or urn size), headstone or marker type, religious emblem, inscription, and whether to request military funeral honors.
  5. The funeral home sends the DD214 to the National Cemetery Scheduling Office (fax 866-900-6417 or NCA.Scheduling@va.gov), then calls 800-535-1117 to confirm eligibility and set the date. The office is open Monday through Friday, 8:00 a.m. to 7:30 p.m. Eastern. (VA scheduling details)
  6. The funeral director requests military funeral honors through the Department of Defense. The family does not need to call.
  7. The service takes place on a weekday. National cemeteries hold burials Monday through Friday.
  8. After the burial, the family receives the burial flag and can request a Presidential Memorial Certificate. If the family paid funeral costs, they may file VA Form 21P-530EZ for a burial allowance.
If the spouse passes away first, the same steps apply. The spouse is buried in the national cemetery, and the Veteran is later buried in the same gravesite.

If nothing was prepared ahead

Burial is still available without a pre-need letter. VA simply confirms eligibility at the time of need, and the main risk is delay.

  • Eligibility is checked during the scheduling call. With the DD214 in hand, this is usually quick.
  • A missing DD214 is the most common slowdown. VA can help search for records, but its scheduling page notes this may take several days.
  • Other papers may be requested, such as a marriage certificate, a divorce decree from an earlier marriage, or a death certificate.
  • Choices get made under time pressure: cemetery, casket or cremation, headstone wording, honors.
  • The service date may move out while records are confirmed, which can add funeral home holding costs.

Even without preparation, the family can call the National Cemetery Scheduling Office, the funeral home, or a free county Veterans Service Officer for help.

Part 3

Who to Contact

WhoWhat they help withHow to reach them
National Cemetery Scheduling OfficeScheduling a burial, confirming eligibility at time of need800-535-1117 (TTY 711), Mon–Fri 8:00 a.m.–7:30 p.m. ET · fax 866-900-6417 · NCA.Scheduling@va.gov
VA pre-need eligibilityApplying in advanceVA.gov pre-need page · mail to NCA Evidence Intake Center, PO Box 5237, Janesville, WI 53547
VA burial allowanceReimbursement of funeral costsVA Form 21P-530EZ · mail to VA Pension Intake Center, PO Box 5365, Janesville, WI 53547-5365
Military funeral honorsFlag folding, Taps, flag presentationRequested by the funeral director: 877-645-4667
National ArchivesReplacement DD214Request records online (eVetRecs), or Standard Form 180 by mail
County Veterans Service Officer or VSOFree help with forms and recordsFind one near you on VA.gov
Funeral homeArrangements and the VA scheduling callThe family's chosen provider

Florida national cemeteries

CemeteryAddressPhoneStatus
Cape Canaveral5525 U.S. Highway 1, Mims, FL 32754321-383-2638Open
Florida National6502 SW 102nd Ave, Bushnell, FL 33513352-793-7740Open
Jacksonville4083 Lannie Rd, Jacksonville, FL 32218904-766-5222Open
Sarasota9810 State Road 72, Sarasota, FL 34241877-861-9840Open
South Florida6501 S State Road 7, Lake Worth, FL 33449561-649-6489Open
Tallahassee5015 Apalachee Pkwy, Tallahassee, FL 32311850-402-8941Open
Barrancas (and Annex)Pensacola, FL 32508850-453-4108Open
Bay Pines10000 Bay Pines Blvd, St. Petersburg, FL 33708727-319-6479Cremation only
St. Augustine104 Marine St, St. Augustine, FL 32084904-766-5222Closed to new gravesites

"Open" means new casket and cremation burials are available. A closed or cremation-only cemetery may still accept a spouse in an existing gravesite. Status from the VA cemetery listing for Florida.

Part 4

Typical Costs

The cemetery side is free; the family pays the funeral home. Choosing a national cemetery removes the plot, vault or liner, and headstone from the bill.

ItemWho pays
Gravesite, columbarium niche, or in-ground cremation siteVA, no cost
Opening and closing of the graveVA, no cost
Grave liner (for casket burial)VA, no cost
Headstone or marker, including the spouse's name and datesVA, no cost
Perpetual care of the siteVA, no cost
Burial flag and Presidential Memorial CertificateVA, no cost
Military funeral honorsDepartment of Defense, no cost
Funeral home services, embalming or cremationFamily
Casket or urnFamily
Transportation to the cemeteryFamily (VA may reimburse in some cases)
Viewing, flowers, programs, obituaryFamily

For scale, the national median for a funeral with viewing and burial was $8,300, or $9,995 with a vault, and $6,280 with cremation, per the National Funeral Directors Association's 2023 survey. Costs vary widely, so the funeral home's General Price List is the best guide.

VA burial allowances

Some families qualify for partial reimbursement. Eligibility depends on the circumstances, such as a service-connected death or death while under VA care.

AllowanceAmountApplies to
Service-connected deathUp to $2,000Deaths on or after Sept. 11, 2001
Non-service-connected burialUp to $1,032Deaths on or after Oct. 1, 2026 ($1,002 for deaths Oct. 1, 2025 – Sept. 30, 2026)
Plot or intermentUp to $1,032Deaths on or after Oct. 1, 2026; generally for burial outside a VA national cemetery
TransportationActual costCertain cases, including burial in a national cemetery, with receipts

File with VA Form 21P-530EZ. Non-service-connected claims are due within 2 years of burial; service-connected, plot and transportation claims have no time limit. A surviving spouse already on the Veteran's VA record may be paid automatically.

Part 5

Frequently Asked Questions

Can we reserve a specific gravesite?

No. National cemetery gravesites are assigned at the time of need. The pre-need letter confirms eligibility and records a preferred cemetery.

Is the pre-need application required?

No. It is optional, free, and saves time later.

Is a spouse who never served eligible?

Yes. The spouse of an eligible Veteran can be buried in a national cemetery, usually in the same gravesite.

What if the spouse passes away first?

The spouse can still be buried in the national cemetery. The Veteran is later buried in the same gravesite, and both names go on the headstone.

What if the surviving spouse remarries?

A surviving spouse who remarries after the Veteran's death remains eligible, per VA.gov. A former spouse whose marriage ended in divorce or annulment is not eligible.

Are adult children eligible?

Minor children are. Adult children generally are not, except some unmarried adult children whose disability began in youth and left them dependent on the Veteran; VA asks for disability documentation.

Can we choose cremation?

Yes. National cemeteries accept cremated remains, in the ground or in a columbarium niche. Options vary by cemetery.

Do we have to use a cemetery in our state?

No. The family can choose any national cemetery with space available.

Can the burial happen on a weekend?

National cemeteries hold burials Monday through Friday.

What if we prefer a private or church cemetery?

VA still provides the Veteran a free headstone, marker or medallion (VA Form 40-1330). The family pays for the plot and for setting the headstone.

What are military funeral honors?

At least two uniformed service members fold and present the flag, and Taps is played (by a bugler or a recording). The funeral director arranges it.

What about Arlington National Cemetery?

Arlington has its own rules and is not part of the VA pre-need program. Families contact Arlington directly.

What if the discharge was not honorable?

A dishonorable discharge is not eligible. Other discharge types are reviewed case by case by a VA regional office, and a discharge upgrade can be requested.

Who can help us fill out the forms for free?

A county Veterans Service Officer or an accredited Veterans Service Organization (such as the American Legion, VFW or DAV) helps at no charge. Find one near you on VA.gov.

A Note from Mia "Families often tell me the hardest part of a loss is the paperwork that comes all at once. For Veterans and their spouses, a DD214 in the right folder and one free VA letter can turn that week into a single phone call." — Mia Smith, MBA, FPWM, FRC, NSSA®  ·  Federal Retirement Consultant

Keep a copy with your important papers

The two-page printable guide has the checklist, the key phone numbers and what VA covers. Many families keep it with the DD214.

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Prepared by Octus Financial for general education, from information published by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (va.gov and cem.va.gov), current as of October 2026. Octus Financial is not affiliated with the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. This is not legal advice. VA rules and allowance amounts change, usually each October 1, so please confirm current details at VA.gov or with the National Cemetery Scheduling Office before acting. Sources: VA pre-need eligibility · VA burial eligibility · Schedule a burial · VA burial allowance · Florida national cemeteries · NFDA 2023 General Price List Study.